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Listen upwards!!! I defenseless up with a few of my manufacture pals and here's what they had to say. I am request questions and getting honest responses from both men and women as to why they are unmarried and whether or not matrimony really works. The responses volition shock you!

You may ask, "What's the purpose for this post?" My response is that people seem to be in a state of disbelief whenever I pull out the "I'one thousand Unmarried" menu. They tin't believe that I oasis't married as of yet, and that I have been single for the past two years. Am I single by selection? No, I just don't feel personally in my feel that men desire an honest/ loyal mate that'due south gon continue it 100. ;-)

Some of the responses are funny, some will be your personal testimony. If You lot are not featured… I would dearest to hear your comments? Bask!

Q: Fantasy: Are yous single considering your standards are as well high?

A: Da Orchestra: (male)  My standards aren't loftier. PPL'southward expectations are loftier. When you're passionate bout a career more than y'all are nearly having a spouse, PPL tend to want to compete. It's CUZ they don't like beingness in 2d or tertiary identify. Play the part assigned to you.

Just CUZ y'all prepare me some Froot Loops every at present and then doesn't entitle y'all to anything more than rinsing out the basin.—Da orchestra

Q: Fantasy: Are yous single because your standards are too high?

A: Star Lynn: No, I'm not single because my standards are likewise high. Although, I do have standards I am realistic .I know everyone will not be my soul mate and that my soul mate may not be perfect, but I do have standards… they aren't thru the roof to the point where I am non unapproachable. I know what I will and volition not tolerate considering of past relationships.

I'm non trying sound cocky, but some men may be intimidated by a adult female that tin concord her own. I'm not singing the independent lady song, just I want to be able to bring something to the table likewise. Its' a team effort in a relationship. I  don't think that existence successful or cute has annihilation to do with it.

It has everything to practice with my standards… just because a guy approaches me or thinks that he has found me doesn't mean that I have to accept him especially, if his sh#t ain't together.—Star Lynn

Q: Fantasy: You are in the industry men/ women say they are attracted to you because yous own a concern or you lot're educated, etc. Why can't they handle your lifestyle? What makes them jealous in your opinion?

A: Nader: Can't trust ppl that's why. People take different motives knowing that yous're successful. Some might want u to be in the lime calorie-free and others might endeavor and set u up.—Nader Mirfiq

A: Nader: They get jealous considering they think that you just political party every calendar week and you're around girls all of the fourth dimension @ these parties.

Q: Fantasy: Yous are in the manufacture men/ women say they are attracted to you because you own a business or you lot're educated, etc. Why can't they handle your lifestyle? What makes them jealous in your opinion?

A: Arlene Culpepper (female) It's been my experience that virtually men don't seem to deal well with successful women. I'chiliad not sure what the problem is – whether it is jealously of a female person working within a male dominated industry, whether information technology is a female working closely with such successful men or whether it's the fact we don't demand annihilation financial from them. Whatever the reason, it's real and I continue to encounter it.

I love a strong human being, so I couldn't deal with one that has an issue with what I exercise anyway.–Arlene Culpepper

Q: Fantasy: How like shooting fish in a barrel is information technology being a female / male person in a male dominated industry? Practise you lot observe that when you're in a relationship you lot have to explain yourself a lot to your mate considering of photos that you've taken with the opposite sexual practice or social media interaction?

A: Dionne "Diva" Character: I am single because I haven't found exactly what I want! I think it is very hard for a man to bargain with a beautiful successful intelligent adult female, especially in the Entertainment Industry. Me, I'll just await for the Universe to send me "Mr. Diva," until then, I'll proceed Grinding. Beloved Ya!

In that location has to be an abundance amount of trust and understanding.—Dionne Character

Q: Fantasy: How easy is information technology being a female / male person in a male dominated industry? Do you discover that when you're in a relationship you have to explain yourself a lot to your mate because of photos that you lot've taken with the opposite sex or social media interaction?

A:Jason Lyric: (male) It'southward extremely difficult! My cadre fan base of operations is women so I take to cater to them. I can see where it can be hard on a woman dealing with me or any other homo in this industry. Yous Have to accept trust and respect in club to have a chance.

I am single considering… me personally, I take trust issues ((LOL)) real talk.

I'one thousand not the easiest person to love, but I'thou loyal. If you ride for me, I'll die for you.—Jason Lyric

Q: Fantasy: Are y'all often misunderstood?

A: Jus Cookie:  hmmm is #ARealCookie misunderstood? I'd have to say aye…just I'm a Gemini & information technology's to be expected 😁

A: Jus Cookie: (female) I'd like to think that I am 1 of the beautiful people even tho looks accept zip to do with…y I am single Mainly because I know what that ways & the people I run into exercise not. I'grand non interested in multi-tasking when information technology comes to dating. Wish everybody thought similar this. They don't.

I'm single because a truly single man whose interests I share oasis't scooped me up notwithstanding.—Jus Cookie

Q: Fantasy: Are y'all frequently misunderstood?

A: Smut Da Poet: Aye, I feel I'm often misunderstood, and  it's not all their error, I forgive them. About people estimate me based on my name solitary, specially those upwardly north where a "Smut" is a derogatory term. Just when they become to know me or even get to have i convo. (conversation) with me then things alter.

A: Smut Da Poet: Information technology'south been a minute since I've found someone that has made me want to commit to them.On top of that a lot of people tin can't handle being in a human relationship with someone who's in the public or well known fifty-fifty if it'southward in similar circles.

Honestly I'm single considering I rather be that than a cheater.—Smut Da Poet

Q: Fantasy: If y'all could change one affair virtually yourself that yous feel would brand you a great catch what would that one thing exist?

A:Fatt Mayweather: (male person) I would change my trunk. I'k trying to get that LL Look.

The main reason I'm unmarried is because I'm not willing to settle. I accept put hard work and dedication into my business organization, personal growth and self evolution. As a business human and a father… I demand someone who's willing to grind just as hard.

Broke girls are played out… whats your value?—Fatt Polo Down Mayweather

Wedlock works if you brand information technology work. Y'all can give up on it or you can fight thru it. I think that marriage is over rated people look for the fairy tale lifestyle once they get married. There's no such thing a s a perfect marriage. There is somebody for everybody. Every one  has BS (bull sh#t) with them. It tin can work just depends on its who's BS (bull sh#t) you're willing to put up with. Yes, if yous have two parties equally yoked on the aforementioned mind set skies the limit. If someone is positive and the other person is jealous information technology will fail. Somebody will get tired… enough is plenty. We get so mad sometimes that nosotros forget what we're mad or are arguing most. You stop upwards having make upward sex activity.

Q: Fantasy: If you could alter one thing near yourself that you experience would brand you a great catch what would that one thing be?

A: April Sanders: I would accept a Masters degree in Business and Administration. On the physical side…I would like to take a 44 inch butt, only I estimate I'll settle for  38 inches.

Q: Fantasy:  If You're Successful, Beautiful/ Handsome Why Are You Unmarried? Does Marriage Actually Piece of work?

A: April Sanders: The reason why I am unmarried is considering a man tin can't deal with a beautiful broad like myself. It'southward mainly because I model and I have fans. He knows men are going to throw themselves at me, but it'southward up to me to say "Hey I desire to holler at them or Hey I am in a relationship so back off." And then on that annotation…

I am happily unmarried due to some men having insecurity issues with themselves and those that can't handle a beautiful woman like myself.

Q: Fantasy: What's the main thing that women compliment you lot for? What'southward the worse thing you've always done that broke a girl'due south/ guy's heart?

A: Fam Boy Illy: After they stop staring at my tattoos Konversation .

A: Fam Boy Illy: HaD my beginning Daughter with another girl At the fourth dimension we were kiDs and She was my GFrienD.

Q: Fantasy: If You lot're Successful, Beautiful/ Handsome Why Are You lot Single?

Single to a woman, yet I'one thousand marrieD to my kareer

Q: Fantasy: What'due south the master matter that women compliment y'all for? What'due south the worse thing yous've e'er done that broke a girl'due south/ guy's eye?

A: Mouth Droppa: Women don't compliment each other and then I cant really say what they compliment the most…

A: Mouth Droppa: I've only broken hearts that should've never been given to me. I would never pause a dudes middle if I allow him hand information technology to me.

Q: Fantasy: If You're Successful, Cute/ Handsome Why Are Yous Unmarried?

A: Mouth Droppa: I am single considering I push people away.

In this day and historic period no ane is willing to "courtroom" its too much p***y beingness thrown around freely

Q: Fantasy: You have your own business, you have a tiptop paying job, you're a successful creative person in the amusement industry… Is there a such thing as being true-blue?

A: Vii Johnson: In that location is a such matter equally you existence faithful when you are such a person that knows what it is to be committed. The success of who you lot are should never be the navigation to who y'all get. If there was a person in your life beforehand there should never go an afterthought. And if you met them in route to.. Or in the wake of your success yous should exist more than faithful considering you chose to allow them into your life. In that case you are not being faithful to them.. You are beingness faithful to who they saw yous as in being someone they can trust. And a true success story is every facet of your life. Not just your business, talent or portfolio.. It is what you exercise in your beloved life, parenting, friendship and most of all… Human relationship with GOD. So if you don't think you can exist true-blue in the area y'all are with the person who trusts y'all.. Then GOD won't feel you lot are suitable to be the flagship for the STORY that brings HIM Celebrity. So when you are humble plenty to know that yous were given this to requite back, and non just take away… You will understand that faithfulness id=due south what you give to that person who you tin can't come across being taken away… SEVEN J.

Q: Fantasy:  If You're Successful, Beautiful/ Handsome Why Are You Unmarried? Does Marriage Really Work?

A: Seven Johnson: Information technology is hard being single whether yous are successful or not. Simply being on the climb you lot accept a mindset that tells y'all to not accept who will pull you downward. So when you lot know who you are , you lot look for who you see that has you lot within of them. Being in the limelight brings unwanted people who only desire the spotlight… Yet, they have no bulb to bring to you if you are dimming. Then beingness single brings you piece of heed at times, simply surety of who you desire at all times. No one wants to be lonely, but everyone would rather be lonely if existence with someone has you feeling like you lot are in it alone. A person with more to offering will accept people that come along with zilch to give and everything to take. So you have to exist careful. And single is a security that isn't always built on an insecurity.

A: Vii Johnson: And yes marriage works. But it has to be with a person who understands that the good life is a approving and not a permanent. They have to know that GOD may examination you and them by taking away to give you more than when yous hang in there because of love. HE may test their genuine honey to be certain to go on blessing you.

So the just fashion to know that they are right for a union that is correct is that you accept to know that they are correct when all things go wrong. Wedlock works… You but have to be willing to work on it… SEVEN J.

Q: Fantasy: You have your own business, y'all have a top paying task, you're a successful creative person in the entertainment industry… Is there a such thing as beingness faithful?

A: E.D. Complimentary: (female) Yeah, there is most definitely a such affair equally existence true-blue.  Faithfulness is one of those things that you main by exercise.  Lets be honest. There is a ton of temptation around you and at some point we all have given in.  But, when yous have reached that level of success to where people respect you, the moves and decisions you brand… fatihfulness is something necessary in all relationships.  When you are focused and into your career… do yous really have time not to exist true-blue to it and the person that you're committed to? Central word being "committed."  I hateful lets have an honest moment right ((LOL)) I am a successful business possessor and a make, a successful publicist with several clients to keep up with at once.  I was constantly effectually and exposed to things that I desired.Temptation of the attention and of flesh is a beast okay, but at one point I got over the thrill of it and asked myself… whats next? The but matter left to do is be faithful. A common characteristic of most successful people, we all can not let a challenge shell us.  When you find yourself having that talk like yea yea been there done that, got the shirt and the text, in regards to existence faithful or non existence faithful is almost similar a no encephalon-er. T.I. said when he was asked about how does he stay faithful and committed in his matrimony to Tiny, he said its simple.  The twenty-four hours he  decided he wanted to be fully committed/married to this woman, he started to live and human activity like it. At present take that and roll with it.

Being true-blue shows your maturity and in my opinion depression tolerance for the bullshit. It takes entirely too much time to be keeping up with all these heauxs now days.  And when you are successful in your career ain't no body got time for that.— East.D. Costless

Q: Fantasy:  How easy is it to resist temptation? What'southward your definition of thirsty?

A: Casme' : Information technology'southward not easy but I go along my listen, body & spirit occupied past Purpose.

A: Casme' : Thirsty. Desperate to become a man by whatsoever ways necessary.

Q: Fantasy: If You lot're Successful, Beautiful/ Handsome Why Are You Single? Does Spousal relationship Really Work?

A: Casme' : This industry is difficult to be in & married if one is not focused or accept the wrong intentions. I'm focused & patient enough to know that my Day Is coming.

I has to be consummate showtime before joining a unit. I'1000 working on me &fulfilling my destiny. When we meet it'll be Heavenly.—Casme'

Q: Fantasy:  How easy is information technology to resist temptation? What'southward your definition of thirsty?

A: Carlton Wade: I don't. ((LOL)). No, but really. I usually think about the consequences prior to making any moves. I weigh my pros and cons and measure to see whether the take chances is worth the desired effect. Mostly, since I became a father, I inquire myself what communication I would give my son. And the advice is always the direct reverse of what I would have done before I had a child. Equally far as being thirsty, my definition may be a bit overcast because I just have a depression tolerance for bullshit and games. The moment I since that the adult female isn't 100, I keep it moving. I accept been wrong in some instances and I probably have lost out on a potentially skilful situation. But being thirsty in my opinion is actually beingness overzealous to the betoken where you're a pest. A woman knows early on whether she's interested in you lot or not.

Q: Fantasy: If You're Successful, Beautiful/ Handsome Why Are You Unmarried? Does Wedlock Actually Work?

A: Carlton Wade: I'm divorced as of three years. Going through the divorce, my ex-married woman and I were told to wait at least a year before yous start a new relationship. At this betoken, I don't know exactly what I want but I do know what I don't want in a mate.

I volition not settle so I'm just waiting to notice that woman that makes the fireworks get off!— Carlton Wade

Q: Fantasy: How exercise you make up one's mind whether or not a person actually wants you or they desire yous just because they desire to exist a part of your success?

A: Kali' Red: "Sometimes"…you can determine whether or not a person actually wants you, or desires to be a role of your success by merely paying attending to the chemical science that y'all and that person have during the time that you spend together. If that chemistry is off balance and totally different from what the person is displaying, y'all can usually Experience that it's not existent.

→→Also, take some time out to reflect dorsum to how you met that person… (where you were at that time, and how did they arroyo you). These days it'due south hard to tell who's existent and who's fake, so you accept to be EXTRA Conscientious with allowing people to become shut to you, you have to really PROTECT your HEART. But you tin can FEEL information technology when the person just desires your success…considering they push you to include them into the limelight in diverse ways…and when the success ride slows down or takes a wrong turn, their TRUE COLORS starts to show vividly…or they turn their dorsum/leave you with no remorse.

Q: Fantasy: If Y'all're Successful, Beautiful/ Handsome Why Are You unmarried?

A: Kali' Red: I am single because I cull to exist right at present…I haven't come up across anyone that I feel that special connexion with nonetheless, and honestly, I really oasis't been looking!

I've been busy trying to get myself together, and focused on my new ready of goals…so that I tin can stay on my success path or what ever God has in store for me. Because I know that he hasn't bought me this far for nothing!—Kali' Crimson

Q: Fantasy: How do yous determine whether or non a person actually wants yous or they want you just because they desire to exist a function of your success?

A: Tru Kernell: For instance I'm getting a lot of attending right now and I know that'due south its non really me that the ladies honey it's the success of what I have going on. It'southward not me. When you come up on money or build some blazon of success yous can tell whether or non a person has genuine interest in you or not. Some women in the by have complained of not being introduced to the people in my circle. If a adult female can come into my life and embrace everything in information technology then she's the i. I get in my zone and sometimes need that additional motivation… I'one thousand so accustomed to motivating myself.

People desire you because you're handsome and successful. You have to exist cautious when selecting a mate.— Tru Kernell

Q: Fantasy: If you lost everything tomorrow will they still want you? Will they be at that place for you? Will they truly dear you?Will they truly love you? Will they plough their back on you(men, women., then chosen friends)?

A: Valencia Christina: ((LOL)) it's funny you would inquire these question. The reply to all those is no! Hell no! Often times we feel every bit if social credence is the key to life and forget all about God. Nosotros began to put material things before or godly duties and the people around u.s.a. see this as a weakness. The enemy then comes in and decides to use those close to y'all. They will meet your coin and their eyes calorie-free upwards green! They begin to praise you, call you dominate, say your the man/woman and they promise you lot become far.

They scream your proper noun in a oversupply and correspond for you all to get a prize. Prizes = cars, house, apparel, shoes, money, sex, power, drugs, vacations etc. Oh, but guess what! ((LOL)) When the coin is gone the thrill is gone! They don't want to kick it equally much because they take an sometime lady. They don't want to social club because well you tin't popular bottles! They don't want to come visit because now because your house is average. Man I've been through all of it. The merely people yous can honestly say won't leave you lot are certain people. The people who practice from their heart. They are genuine, but then many are faking the funk. ((smh)) Just time volition tell. God loves a cheerful giver right? Yes. Don't mistake this for making someone a handicapped person when they are capable of making it on their own. Men and women spend their lives solitary because they fear love and accept care of grown ups like they are kids. Information technology's one affair to set up a person up, but it's incorrect to take intendance of someone whose not your kids, parents, or meaning other.

For instance. If you have a homie who is homeless and yous desire to help or you know someone in need of a car… you don't have to buy them a house. Requite them a room and a fourth dimension line to come up up with a plan to make money with the amount you agree to invest in him. You don't have to buy him a Lexus. You can get them a nice used car with depression miles and also if they want more out of life hitting them with the I'll invest if you lot accept a ready programme oral communication. I've learned my lesson. People will plow their back on you when you need them the virtually. It's so piece of cake for usa to forget what someone has done and sacrificed for usa. Even Easier for us to call back what we did. We mistake the people that truly love u.s. for the people who only love united states for what we have.:)

Q:Fantasy: If You're Successful, Beautiful/ Handsome Why Are You Single?

Anyway so,I'm unmarried because finding somebody real is hard ,but even if they are real they take to live higher up influences and that'south almost extinct.— VC Barbie

A: Valencia Christina: I'one thousand single considering its hard to find somebody real and has their ain heed. It's to the point in our society that people are basing their lives on music. When these rappers and singers have a wife with adopted kids who were there before them And living the good life in dear. They laugh at people who believe what they say and do in videos. It's all acting. Another challenge nosotros confront is the family influence. Proceed your people out your love life. Only you know what makes yous smile and happy and at-home. Your mom dad sister nor brother can tell y'all how to run your life or who to pick. I've seen people listen to their parents and marry someone based on their artificial wants and now that couple is dead. The married man killed him and the married woman in Algiers. This man was my mothers God blood brother. Very close family unit ((smh)). So why would I non move based on my true emotions? I wouldn't risk loosing my life trying to pigment a perfect picture only to say run across we did information technology right. Blah. Ain't nobody got time for that! Lol. I ever say is what everybody else thinks worth loosing your life? My answer is easy. Hell NO!

Q: Fantasy: If you lost everything tomorrow will they still want you lot? Will they be in that location for you? Will they truly honey you? Will they plough their back on y'all(men, women., so called friends)?

A: Kami Gauche': The ane's who dear Mr. All the Way Live or like Mr. All the Mode Live would not want to, but the people who knows the real me and who I am as a person would nonetheless want me. They know one thing about me… I will go it back. The women are gon exist there no matter what. Whether I'm broke, rich, or depressed if its a adult female that I'm dealing with it depends on her outlook on life. She may not be able to deal with me because I'thou a different person when I'grand broke. I be angry, not easy to become forth with… I snap at people. I wouldn't expect any one to stick around because I'm hard to bargain with if I'm bankrupt. That's why I effort to keep me some money at all times.

I am single because women deceit handle the force per unit area of being seeing with me in public meaning we're okay as long as we're in the firm. only as soon equally I have them out to a public result or show its over with because they can't handle the women walking upwards to make hugging and kissing you.

They ask you to take pictures with them considering they're fans and I cant tell them no.

Q: Fantasy: Describe the most romantic date that you have ever been on? What's your definition of the worse date ever?

A: Iris Poree: I'd say my about romantic appointment was on valentines twenty-four hours when my daughters dad snuck behind security at my schoolhouse to give me balloons and a bear. ((LOL)) When I got abode, he had the room decorated with roses and candles with a card on the bed.

A: Iris Poree: My worst date, I guess I'd say was when I left a n#gga in the club. He wasn't man enough that night.

A: Iris Poree: It's hard dating if the dude can't except that I have fans! My fans are the reason why I'm poppin'(successful) so why wouldn't I show them love? I tin't ever accept a jealous human, one who questions my works!

Q: Fantasy: If You're Successful, Cute/ Handsome Why Are Yous Single?

I was unmarried for and so long because I had a long checklist of what I wanted in a homo.

I finally I have that and he had better go on it  upwardly. He is awesome, always encourages me to pursue my dream, and that'southward all that matters when it comes down to what I want in a human being.

Q: Fantasy: Describe the most romantic date that you take e'er been on? What's your definition of the worse date e'er?

A: Acelo: Ok….the most romantic date I've been on was a helicopter ride effectually the city…Never had a worst date, simply I've experienced dates where Myself & the other person but didn't gel when we got along.

Q: Fantasy: Does Union Really Work?

A:  Acelo: Actually I'm engaged to my son's mother.

I believe marriage can piece of work if you "know" the person your marrying & both parties are selfless

Q: Fantasy: If You're Successful, Beautiful/ Handsome Why Are Yous Single? What's your ideal mate? What'southward the perfect engagement?

A: Fantasy: I am turned on by a man that is God fearing, book smart, street smart, and knows what he wants out of life. He must be health conscious and not ane that has a million miles on his d#ck. A man that has goals, dreams, and aspirations. If he is family/ business oriented and a romanticists… that's a plus. I prefer tall, nighttime, and handsome, but if he is truly charming and into me I'll make exceptions.

He would likewise need to be capable of being my best friend, chemical science and passion are of grave importance. I don't like men that are lazy, broke(with no plans of changing information technology), compulsive liars, self absorbed, male chauvinist, egotistical pigs. :) This list goes on!!!((LOL)) I'1000 worth a lot so, I require a lot.

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